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He doesn't date good girls

That's what he told me. Things were going fine. The sex was great! Then two weeks into things he told me he didn't want to date because his life is a mess (drugs, he doesn't have his life together, etc.) and he tends to screw nice girls up. So we still have sex but he won't date. I don't know why he can't get his life together and then we can date. What should I do?

Posted: Wed, 11/12/2008 - 10:21pm

If he's not dating you it's because he doesn't like you. If he liked you, he would do what he needs to do to get his life together so he can date you and not "mess you up." Quit having sex with him, and move on to someone who wants to have sex with you AND date you!!

Posted: Sun, 08/23/2009 - 8:39am

Well maybe you can be a good girl with a little naughty side in you,lol. Find out what turns him on and show up to his house with a bag of goodies. try this site that has helped me out so much www.sextoybox.org . guarantee he will not think of you as a good girl but a great girl. good luck

Posted: Sat, 11/15/2008 - 5:04pm

Ugh. I hate comment spam. But I have to agree. Show him you aren't so nice. Maybe that will change his mind.

Posted: Sun, 11/16/2008 - 11:17pm

She already said the sex was great. I don't think that is the problem here.

Posted: Sun, 11/16/2008 - 10:29pm

That sounds sweet that he was warning you away. I bet he feels conflicted, like he doesn't know how to fix himself but he wants to. I don't understand guys like that, why can't he start dating nice girls, starting with you.

Posted: Sat, 11/15/2008 - 12:44pm

or maybe you just aren't his style. sounds like you have a nice sex buddy here. move on.

Posted: Sun, 11/16/2008 - 11:29pm

Hows the sex? Any good? Keep him around then.

Posted: Fri, 11/14/2008 - 11:13pm

stay away. seriously. you can't fix him and the fact that he told you to go away means that he is going to get out of you what he can without the commitment. he may be hot, but don't fall for it. he is using you.

Posted: Thu, 11/13/2008 - 9:16pm

Kataroo is right. It sounds like he is looking for sex without commitment.

Posted: Sat, 11/15/2008 - 1:18pm

I agree with Kataroo and LeMaster. I've been there. He's not looking for commitment, just wants to get what he can.

Posted: Sat, 04/11/2009 - 11:46pm

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