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We Don't Know Her Name; We Do Know Her Secrets

The Ethical Slut explores the "anal zone" and other risky areas.

Blogger Crush: The Ethical Slut

LoveStage: Engaged

Although we don't know her actual name because she chooses to remain anonymous, we do know all about her bad-girl behavior. The Ethical Slut is this weeks blogger crush. This blogger resides in NYC and, although her blog was originally created to talk openly and freely about her one night stands and S&M action, she is now happily engaged to a fella she refers to as "Mr. M." (short for Mr. Monogamous.) The 'Slut (as she likes to call herself) is surprised that she has settled down, but admits to being very happy in her relationship. 

Even though The Ethical Slut has ventured away from writing about her naughty endeavors with random strangers, she still manages to keep readers entertained by spilling the beans about her finacee. 

Some of the highlights of 'Slut's posts include (but are not limited to): choking Mr. M during sex, exploring the "anal zone", having a broken vagina (coping with a condition known as vulvodynia), and having sex sideways. Besides being brutally honest and hysterically funny, almost every one of 'Slut's posts are jaw-droppers. 

Wondering where you've heard the name before? Well, The Ethical Slut is also a book. Although Ms. Anonymous has nothing to do with it, it could have certainly been the inspiration for her highly entertaining blog. The book, written by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt abd published in 1997, is a standard in the polylamory canon with its guide to "infinite sexual possibilities." 

We love the new spin The Ethical Slut is putting on monogamy—she manages to have an awesome relationship with Mr. M by being sexually adventurous and also by taking risks. Another thing 'Slut manages to do? Constantly keep us entertained!

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LeMaster Married I was born ready.
Posted November 16, 2008

At some point these blogs become unbelievable. I am not sure that normal people have all of this sex.

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Seaman Single
Posted November 16, 2008

I agree. I have my lucky streaks but the sex I have is nothing like the sex these bloggers talk about. Or SATC sex for that matter.

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BigAl Taken
Posted November 16, 2008

Sounds like you are married :)

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Mango Married
Posted November 16, 2008

Hey don't knock married sex.

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Mango Married
Posted November 14, 2008

Sideways sex? I have to check that out.

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