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Male Masturbation Fantasies Exposed

One guy reveals the fantasies that bring him to the edge...

Ever wonder what men fantasize about? Over at Glamour's Smitten one guy revealed his frottage fodder. It includes a rotating cast of women, images instead of narrative and a few surprises…

Nowadays, I go through "the highlight reel." You know, every relationship has its highlight reel of actual moments that you were having sex and thinking, "Wow, this is amazing."

 

It's sweet that he uses real people for fantasies. Also interesting, though not surprising, I suppose, that he uses ex-girlfriends for masturbation inspiration. Do you ever think about which exes of yours might keep you in their nightly rounds? Here's a clue:

There’s one little interesting wrinkle: When I’m fantasizing about past girlfriends, sometimes it makes a difference who broke up with whom. If I’ve broke up with them, but still find them attractive, then that’s really easy. But if she broke up with me, it feels a little too pathetic to have her in my fantasy. Still, you know, sometimes I’ll cave...

 

Do you still fantasize about exes? And how would you feel if your boyfriend included his past girlfriends in his masturbatory inventions?

Can you relate?

Discussion

cheri_cam Married I'm a happy-wife!
Can Relate - Posted June 18, 2009

It's quite unfair to fantasize your ex(es)..GUess, it won't excite either if you'll try it because they won't matter with you now.

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JRL3 Taken
Posted January 12, 2009
smart talk comment

Sure you feel guilty sometimes but just ask yourself given the chance to do whoever it is your dreamin about would you if you were involved? If no than thats just it use whatever u need to stimulate but give the physical love to your partner-just don't tell me your thinking of someone else altough I might be too. Most times when making love I find the sight and sensuality of my partner to be enough.

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irishgirl85 Taken
Posted January 11, 2009

hey wank off as much as you want to whoever ya want. But isn't there any guilt when your doin it? Am i the only one who feels like im mentally cheating when i dont think about my boyfriend when i do? i know im not actually doin anything but when im with someone i find them the sexiest and most irresistible person around. Honestly, when i do and i think about him, it just gets me more worked up and then i want him even more.

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Mario Single
Posted January 7, 2009

well I admit that I am guilty of the crime. but then again maby it is becous she is the only person I have had sex with. but their is still the thought of other girls. and javafreakkc13 I agree in the oral sex part.

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tmoore6215 Engaged
Posted December 24, 2008

Really??? Our only option here is to answer who we think about when we close our eyes? I mean with the internet overflowing with porn we have to close our eyes and think sex with our wife or ex? Hardly.. not for me. Just way to much to choose from on the internet to think about past events. Most all men are visually stimulated.. hence the billion dollar industry of Porn~!

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javafreakkc13 Single
Posted December 19, 2008

to be honest with ALLLLL The women out there. YES, the men are thinking "ABOUT" something usually. Not usually THINKING about a PARTICULAR PAST GIRLFRIEND of such. However, when we as men MASTURBATE... we usually tend to picture a person. NO REAL PERSON ... MOST OF THE TIME, and then men....TEND TO THINK OF ORAL SEX while they are masturbateing. It takes the LEAST AMMOUNT OF WORK.... and so when men Masturbate. they think of ORAL SEX performed on them.

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savannah Engaged We'll get there eventually.
Posted October 25, 2008

ha! I agree, I like the mysterious "hows this gonna end" fantasy.

and I wouldn't like it if his past GFs showed up in his fantasies. Angelie jolie I can understand, but the GFs? ew.

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Posted September 26, 2008

Replay of sex with old girlfriend maybe reassure, but, in Svutlana opinion, show total lack of imagination. How can get excite about plot when know how story end? Guarantee me, this is same man who watch Seinfeld over and over and over. No like me one bit!

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