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The Birds and the Bees and the Brits

Sex ed is now compulsory in British schools. Why not in the U.S., too?

The country that brought loopy eyeliner, messy beehive hairdos and people named "Posh" and "Becks" to American culture has finally come up with something reasonable.  Let's hope this one gets imported -- right, mate?  

Sex education will now be obligatory for public school students in Britain in order to address the teen pregnancy rate, says Schools Minister Jim Knight.  Britain, which has the highest teen pregnancy rate in Western Europe, decided nine years ago to cut the teen pregnancy rate in half by 2010.  Compulsory sex ed is one step in its master plan -- and a brilliant step at that. 

You hear that, Bristol Palin?  On this side of the pond, as we all know, many public schools funded with your taxpayer money are plagued by abstinence-only education, whose inefficacy is proven yet ignored.  Teaching "save yourself until marriage" in place of, oh, facts never made sense to begin with and it only became worse under President Bush and his cronies on the religious right.

Of course, British critics of comprehensive sex education scorched the plan; some silly newspaper trumpeted a headline that five-year-olds would be learning about intercourse.  That led Knight, the Schools Minister, to give reporters the obvious quote,"We are not suggesting five- or six-year-olds be taught sex."  Knight emphasized that all children, especially younger ones, will be learning about communication skills and healthy relationships as part of sex ed.

Neverthless, the BBC visited a UK primary school to see what kind of nasty sexuality positions these little cartoon-watching, sluts-on-training-wheels are learning.  It found British youngsters know all about that pernicious subject of....breasts!  Writes the Beeb:

Children in some primary schools know the correct name, as part of their lessons on the differences between males and females....."Women have boobs and boys don't," says eight-year-old Malachai, to the amusement of his classmates at a primary school in London. "Right," says the teacher, "get it off your chests, laugh it off." She then praises him - "someone had to say it" - but acknowledges the embarrassment of some of the children and steers them professionally onto the correct terminology.  Thus "females have breasts" joins the list of differences on her flip chart.

Dangerous stuff, indeed.

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Posted October 24, 2008

Once kids know what kinds of parts they've got, they should know why they have them. It's so pathetic when parents try to beat around the bush (no pun intended). Adults should tell it like it is, even if its a teacher that takes responsibility. Kudos, to the Brits!

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Mango Married
Posted October 24, 2008

There are things kids should just not know before a certain age.

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Lolita Single It all feels good.
Posted October 25, 2008

I would rather have my kids know too. Its not just about learning who they are sexually it is about protecting them. If 1 in 5 women are molested and probably more...then if something ever happens to my kids I want them to be able to know what is going on and tell me.

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Wuzzle Starting Over ready to give up
Posted October 24, 2008

parents are the only people who should be talking to their kids about sex. even if you opt out of mandatory sex education your kids will hear others talking about it and find out anywyea,

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Jessica Single
Posted October 24, 2008

But there's "thinking you know" and actually knowing. I'd rather my kids actually know about sex, than think they know, any day. Then they won't be at risk for unwanted pregnancies or diseases.

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Chacha Taken
Posted October 24, 2008

Females have breasts...can't kids figure that out on their own?

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BigAl Taken
Posted October 24, 2008

Kids in the US are growing up confused about sex and sexuality...when they learn about it, it takes the power and danger away from sexuality and it becomes a normal part of life. Like it should be.

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