She asked the Shine community to weigh in. Below are some of their answers.
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The immature response: y do u think that because you have blong hair your so much better then brunnettes? if you dont like it get another boyfriend or dye yhour hair.
The practical response: I dont suggest you dye your hair yourself from blonde to brunette cause thats a drastic step and you may end up kind of streaky doing it yourself the first time.
The mature response: When you say you've talked about marriage, what exactly was discussed? Children? Finances? Religion? In-laws? These are things to be concerned about. Hair color? If this is what has you worried, then you most certainly are not ready to marry anyone.
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Dear reader, what's your response? Is his hair color preference something to be worried about? And how important are looks to long-term love?