What Do You Do When Your Friends Hate Your Man?

So what are women supposed to do with the grudges that develop? Kate's best friend just swallows it. "My best friend hates my sort-of-boyfriend. But whenever she sees him she acts like she's his best friend, because she knows it will make me comfortable," says Kate.

Allison possesses a similar, laissez-faire approach to her friends' relationship choices, even though she's been burned before: "I ultimately think that it's up to us to know who we are and what works best for us... which is why even with friends whose choices I disagree with... I recognize that it's about what they need or what they are attracted to and it's none of my business unless they are in danger in some way..."

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And so it went in Sex and the City: The Movie. Despite their dislike of Mr. Big, Carrie's friends support her choice. After all, it's hard to dislike a man who builds you a shoe closet.