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Romance On A Budget

Cheap dates that keep love alive.

Get More Bang for your Buck. Pulling off romance on a budget is just like living daily life on a budget: it's all about value. Which just means thinking a little outside the box. So do some research and find the places where you'll feel like you're splurging (but know you're not paying for it).
For example, some Chinese restaurants serve wine gratis with dinner, which makes your date feel lavish, at no extra cost. Other eateries have two-for-one drink specials until a certain hour, or are known to offer heaping portions meant to be shared.

Want to give your date front-row tickets to a baseball game? Try the minor league equivalent of your local team: in New York, for less than half the price of mediocre Mets tickets, you can sit up front at a Coney Island Cyclones game, watching rising stars slam home runs and sipping beers that won't cost you an arm and a leg.

Likewise, up-and-coming opera companies can give fabulous performances of famous works for a tenth of what New York's Met would charge you—check the local paper to see what fringe players are wowing critics.

Take a Staycation. Even if you've lived there your whole life, your town or city probably still has a lot to offer. Exploring new frontiers with someone fosters a sense of excitement and togetherness, and can make your date feel like a vacation (minus that pesky plane ticket). Ride the bus to an outlying neighborhood you've never visited, and have lunch in a cute restaurant. When was the last time you visited the local zoo? Have you ever actually gone up to the top of the Empire State building? Venture out to that old-fashioned pizzeria in the countryside that everyone swears has the best pies this side of Rome.

Just Be Together. Your house is the most exclusive club/restaurant/museum in town—so stay in and enjoy its fashionable quietude. Stock up on fresh ingredients at the farmer's market and cook dinner together. Stay in on Saturday night and play board games over a bottle of red wine. Snuggle up and read aloud to each other. Put on your favorite record and ask your date to dance…in the living room. Keeping your festivities at home is novel, intimate, and, just coincidentally, way more affordable than taking them on the town.

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Discussion

Posted February 12, 2009

I agree with the others- I am tired of all of these "on a budget" articles. How about just featuring really cool, amazing things that people can do- regardless of budget. When times are tough- we want to hear about AMAZING things, not taking your date to a Chinese restaurant so that you can get free cheap wine. How depressing!

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted February 12, 2009

Because, I don't know about you, but the recession cost me a job and I'm broke. So bring on the budget articles!!

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BigAl Taken
Posted October 24, 2008

I think you guys are missing the point. Giving gifts and doing things together (yes, those things that COST $$) is a way of showing someone you care. Staying in and watching a movie all the time just says, "you're not worth it."

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Chacha Taken
Posted October 24, 2008

At the risk of sounding like a consumer, I kinda agree. It's a big deal to spend $ on someone, so I really appreciate it when it happens.

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esther 31 Engaged In love and engaged.
Posted October 24, 2008

gifts are too easy! i want my husband to show me he loves me, not spend money on some gift.

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Kevin Married Getting complicated
Posted October 24, 2008

Date nights are important. But you can keep it simple. Why not just go out for dessert and coffee? The important thing is that you are together. If you are with someone who needs to be pampered and go out on expensive dates and that irks you, then you are with the wrong person.

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ProudMary Starting Over
Posted October 23, 2008

It's important to at least have a date night. my ex never wanted date night. Not even drink some wine and watch a movie, he was always on the computer or something.

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Seaman Single
Posted October 23, 2008

My old GF used to make homemade pizza on friday nights. That was awesome. BUt she was just cheap.

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