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Poll: Should You Give A Cheater A Second Chance?

If someone commits adultery, would you ever take them back? Let us know!

Hillary Clinton and Silda Spitzer stayed with their men. Christie Brinkley divorced her husband and made the court case public. Denise Richards filed a restraining order against Charlie Sheen (though to be fair, her cheating allegations—visiting prostitutes, soliciting sex online by posting pics of his c**k—were minor missteps compared with her other accusations—death threats, drug and gambling addition). What would you do?

Take our poll and find out what other YourTango users think...

Should you give a cheater a second chance?

Yes. My spouse cheated on me, I stayed in the relationship and we've come out on the other side.
8% (13 votes)
Yes. if you really love someone you'll find a way to work through it.
13% (20 votes)
Maybe. In theory everyone deserves a second chance but I'm not sure if I could do it in practice.
22% (35 votes)
No. My husband or boyfriend cheated on me and it led to a divorce or separation.
9% (14 votes)
No. If someone cheated on me I could never forgive them.
11% (18 votes)
I'm trying to decide this right now!
36% (57 votes)
Total votes: 157
Can you relate?

Discussion

mclviki Taken chaotic, confusing, wonderful, idk
Posted August 8, 2009

i believe in second chances but thats it. f*** up once, we'll get through it, do it again and you are out the door

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