Ask A Non-Monogamist

Just yesterday, in fact, I spoke with this very same editor about these very same concerns. I asked her what she thought my readers were most curious about. Did they want to know more about the ways Carrie and I dealt with jealousy, for instance? Or would they rather get tips and advice from us about starting open relationships for themselves? Maybe they just wanted the down-and-dirty details: where we found our partners, and what we did with them, and why.

And then it hit me: Why not go straight to the source, and simply ask the readers themselves? Which is exactly what I'm doing now.

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YourTango readers: When it comes to the subjects of polyamory and swinging and open relationships, what are you honestly, truly most curious about? Do you want to know more about the rules and boundaries Carrie and I have developed for our own sex lives? Do you want to learn about how and why we decided to open up our relationship in the first place? Do you want to know what our friends and families have to say about our situation? Do you want to read more about our plans for the future, like our upcoming "UnWedding," or the possibility that we may one day add a permanent third person to our relationship?

Seriously: If there's something specific you're curious about, let me know. You can add your question to the comments section at the end of this post, or you can write to me privately by sending an email to the following address: eldridge@ymail.com.

By the way, I'm planning to spend the next few weeks away from this column. I'll be traveling in the Philippines to research a guidebook for another publisher, but once I've collected a decent number of your questions, I'll sit down with Carrie, and we'll both answer the very best of them together.

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'Til next time…