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Dating Older Men

This is "On the Couch," where you get to play therapist! Today's topic: Age and Dating.

 

Older men dating young women is as old as time itself. But how much of an age difference is too much? Catie Lazarus gets advice from her therapy team on this video episode of "On The Couch".

Can you relate?

Discussion

Posted September 19, 2008

Hahahaaaa, this is so nutty.Face it people, we don't all think the same.some like old, some like others in their age bracket. There is no wrong in age difference anymore-as long as it's not child molesting. What matters is how comfortable you feel-if you doubt and question it then chances are it's not right for you. Chemistry is big. I have to disagree that older men won't cheat on you-they are still capable, just as women are. Just love who you're gonna love and be happy.

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Posted September 19, 2008

The difference in age shrinks as you get older. Take a 25 vs a 15 year old is not the same as a 35 vs 25 year old, etc.

What matters is: chemistry, energy level (physical, sexual), life cycle needs (she wants to have kids; you dont). Latter has been a deal breaker for me.I often date women 30 years younger who are okay with everything else. A girl said she never worries about ageing anymore. Older guys can be financialy and emotionally more secure. Treat you better and less likely to cheat.

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Posted September 7, 2008

Hang ups about age? No problem! Plenty of fish in the sea,and fish don't count. Just don't smell like.....

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Posted August 4, 2008

Yesssss Me! Angelina is single again!!!!! Just split up with my boyfriend......come check me out on Play-Cam * COM

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Posted July 31, 2008

charming College cutie - reporting for duty

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Posted June 21, 2008

We have a 32 year age gap. Phil is 52 and i am 20. married for 2 years and very very happy.

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Posted September 24, 2008

If he is who you love, than there is nothing anyone else can say to keep you two apart. I hope the best for you two too.

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Posted June 24, 2008

Awesome. I wish you both the very best.

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Posted June 15, 2008

I see how much attention girls get in their early 20s, if a woman isn't married by the age of 30 then she did something wrong. After the age of 26 women start to look old and less attractive, plus giving birth past the age of 30 brings increased health risks.

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Posted April 30, 2008

my older sister spent her life dating guys younger than her...... and complaining how none of them will marry her. "he wont marry me. he wont marry me. he wont marry me. he wont marry me". Finally at 38 She got a clue and met a 45 year old guy. Guess what? He married her. She is with the program now. She gets it now.

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Posted March 31, 2008

Katy is cute but it seems that she's acting. I prefer the style of two new girls called "What were you thinking"? With Nancy and Jami. Nancy's a real therapist, and Jami's the everyday woman..excellent chemistry and VERY FUNNY!!! Advice w/ schtick!

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Posted March 30, 2008

omg i love this!

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Posted January 17, 2008

Why do SO many people make such a big deal about age differences- as long as pedophilia isn't involved, so what? My mom and dad were 27 years apart... It is no sin. Just my opinion...

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Posted May 26, 2008

wow

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Posted January 8, 2008

Catie Lazarus is ice!

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Posted January 7, 2008

"I'm not 29," lol!

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Posted January 7, 2008

You're 31? Sure, sure you are...
Yes its normal for older women to lust after cute young men, we are only human after all.
Just because we get older doesnt mean we want old partners. Plenty of teenage boys get "molested" by houswives, they just dont cpmplain about it.

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Posted May 1, 2008

Its also normal for older women to call young guys perverts for dating a young woman when we get older and to tell our younger girlfriends to break up with us becasue we are "manipulators"..
Somewhere an older woman is telling a 28 year old guy's 19 year old girlfriend to break up with him because he's dangerous. Older women think we dont notice that side of their nature.

Thats where older women screw up and why they end up dumped in the end.

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Posted January 4, 2008

wow 27 vs. 31 BIG age difference there to generalize like this is purely foolish not everyone ages the same wjether ages match or not

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