I had a guy lie about his last name on our first date. The way I found out that he was lying was when dinner was over, he asked me could he buy me a gift because he really liked me. I said yes (the restaurant was in a mall) and we went to the store and bought perfume. He used his credit card and when I got home, I looked at the receipt. His name was different from what he had told me it was. When I asked him about it, he lied a second time. Needless to say, I didn't trust him anymore after that but I really liked him, so he got another date. But every time he spoke, I doubted his credibility.
My guy and I have lived together for 2 years now and it took me 8 months to learn that he is a compulsive liar. He has phone affairs and has been caught 4 times, and each time he will NEVER do it again. he even has his phone bills going to another address now. He has a gambling addiction, and spends money like there is npo tomorrow, and he is not a man made of money. He lives in a world of fantasy, nothing real in his life. Why do I hang in there? Because I am 1200 miles sway from home and can not find a job, and have no transportation. At least I have a roof over my head and food on the table. What makes another so intrigued by the internet and tele love affairs?
One guy told me he was a virgin at the same time he'd told one of our mutual friends that he had a daughter. He also didn't bother to tell either of us that he was a homosexual.
i lie when it benifits me! Always have and always will. When it doesnt benifit me i'm brutally honest. I can't seem to lie to my mother though so i dont bother anymore.
