Want to know what he's really thinking? Decipher your dude with these foolproof tips.
Tell us if we've hit the nail on the head. Even though you both are clearly speaking English, it sometimes feels as if you and your guy are speaking completely different languages. Why is it that men seem to operate on a different wavelength from women?
Seriously, why is it that when you say something (and he could say the exact same thing), it has a vastly different meaning? Well, apparently, science is behind that. According to TODAY.com, "The awful truth is, most men have no idea how they feel at any given time. Studies show that men use language to establish difference, separateness and independence (exactly the opposite of women, who talk to connect)."
Because your guy is not as in tune with his emotions as you are, it can sometimes feel like trying to get him to see things the way you do is next to impossible. But that doesn't mean that you
So listen up! If you really want to interpret man speak and FINALLY figure out what your guy is saying, you are totally in luck because we've totally got the remedy right here. We couldn't agree more with host Tiffany Smith when she mentions that it's important to "[open] up the lines of communication between you and your man because after all, the language of love should be universal."
But there are a few things that you have to take into consideration first. Despite popular belief, your man can't read your mind. So instead of fishing for compliments via subtle glances and questions (that aren't really subtle at all), just be upfront with him. Keeping it real can go a LONG way!