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Do All Men Have Wandering Eyes?

What are the rules when you are in a relationship? Can a man look at another woman?

 

What are the rules when you are in a relationship? Can a man look at another woman? When is it crossing the line?

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Posted September 26, 2008

When my ex used to comment on another girl to me, I would just compare myself to her.. unless it's a celebrity I say don't do it!

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Posted September 25, 2008

My partner and I are often sizing up attractive people, both men and women. Like most other things, we have it out in the open. If one of us really wanted to act, we'd talk about that, too. As of now, just having fun and looking has been more than enough!

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Posted August 18, 2008

I wonder what a whole room of 7 Girls would say... The same thing!

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Posted August 18, 2008

Of course. I want to look at people that look nice, why should my boyfriend not be allowed to do the same thing?
I was at a party, and there was that girl, just beautiful. I had to stare at her and when a guy was blocking the sight and my boyfriend made a joke about it-since we like the same girls and I like me most of the time, I am not worried about where he gets his appetite.
But vacation with 6 girls is a little bit different.

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Posted July 25, 2008

which abbey?

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Posted July 25, 2008

I wouldn't mind my boyfriend going on a vacation with 6 girls.
That's just me tho lol

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Posted July 25, 2008

didnt really answer the question

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Posted July 25, 2008

I like pie.

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Posted July 25, 2008

*Smack Smack* what kind of pie we talking 'bout?

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Posted July 29, 2008

Pie. The edible kind.

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Posted July 28, 2008

I like mince and cheese pie

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Posted June 9, 2008

i liked this one
some girlfriends can get pretty insane

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Posted June 9, 2008

these guys couldn't be more chatty

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Posted June 8, 2008

Btw, a straight guy on vacation with six women? Claiming platonic relationships? Please! I guess that's another topic for discussion.

Maybe the guy is a masochist because that's about the only justification I can think of. What man would willingly do this to himself?

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Posted June 16, 2008

Maybe they were all fat but they paid for his vacation.

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Posted June 24, 2008

I don't think you've completely thought this through.

The vacation isn't free since you'll be paying for it one way or another. From every angle, we're talking absolute torture.

Maybe... Just maybe... if I was a homeless man and offered a trip where I could get a shower, shave, and some food, then I would consider it. All other scenarios are out of the question.

Besides, what sort of loser am I if I couldn't pony up for a vacation I would truly enjoy?

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Posted June 24, 2008

Maybe their destination of choice provides a chance for the guy to hook up with OTHER women.

*shrug*

There's gotta be SOMETHING in it for him...

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Posted June 16, 2008

haha!

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Posted June 8, 2008

Bottom line: A wandering eye occurs naturally in both sexes thus any attempt to control this instinct is futile other than driving the activity underground. The wandering eye never stops so if your woman is one of those ball-busting bitches who has jealosy issues, then dump her NOW!

You can not change people. You can only change yourself. DTB her and go find someone new. There's always someone younger and hotter than the woman you are with now.

FINALLY, yourtango puts out a decent video.

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