The impact of dirty talking didn't end when the sex did, it carried over to our daily lives. It was as if we had just met again and the honeymoon phase was beginning. We suddenly started paying more attention to each other. A dozen flowers may show up at my job, or there were times I would come home to find dinner was not only made and waiting but the kitchen was clean! If I knew dirty talking could lead to that I would have tried it years earlier! Sometimes I would send the kids to their aunt's and make it a special weekend. The most important thing though was how much it improved our overall communication outside of the bedroom, for the first time in years we began talking at dinner or taking evening walks discussing whatever came to mind.

Dirty talking may seem taboo or even a little creepy at first for some people, but I am so glad it entered our lives. In all honesty without it I am not sure we would be planning our fifteenth anniversary, it really made that big a difference! The next time you're in the bedroom give it a try. A little dirty talk won't hurt anything and it may just give you everything!