Once You Go Black(Berry)...
I took a minute to think about it and then told her that although I’ve made progress since my last relationship, let’s not forget that I’m still a work in progress.
The conversation got to me in a good way though. I love to preach about letting yourself feel emotions without having to apologize for them, but Ann was right. As important as it is to embrace the rain, we owe it to ourselves to bask in the sunshine after the storm.
As for my new BlackBerry, I’ve realized that I’m in control – I can push buttons without letting that devilish device push mine. And my next man? If he’s as sleek, smart and in tune to my needs as this thing is, I’ll consider myself lucky.
Discussion
I used to feel locked down by the idea of a boyfriend but then I started dating someone I was already friends with and it was a whole different story. It's just about trust and familiarity...after that's established, I didn't feel like we needed to keep each other in check
