Not Into Nighttime Nookie?
Dear Sugar offers some mood enhancers.
I suppose it’s a little TMI that as I was surfing Dear Sugar, I immediately clicked when I saw "Not a Fan of Sex Before Bed? Try This." (Hey, I have a kid. A very time-consuming one.) Let’s just say I can relate. We're not all night owls. And I found the tips somewhat useful, such as:
"If you have too much on your mind to feel sexy, write a list of your thoughts in a journal before you get into bed. If you're thinking about tomorrow, make a to-do list—it'll feel like a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders."
I My friend just might try this one.
Have other ways to get in the mood in the p.m.? Send them our way.
Discussion
The night before (on an I don't feel like it tonight night) prepare some strawberries, cheese and french bread, or something light but easy, and put a bottle of champagne in the fridge. The next day, have a large/late lunch, make plans for the kiddies to do something with a friend for a couple hours, and set everything up in a cozy area (not the bedroom, try something different!), and lay the ground rules- NO talk of work, NO talk of children, NO talk of anything that doesn't concern you, him, the food, or sex. It's best to do this as naked as possible, chances are, you'll end up eating the food as a snack later after you expend your energy on that person. Also, be sure to repay your child toting friend for her/his kindness!
