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Not Into Nighttime Nookie?


Dear Sugar offers some mood enhancers.

I suppose it’s a little TMI that as I was surfing Dear Sugar, I immediately clicked when I saw "Not a Fan of Sex Before Bed? Try This." (Hey, I have a kid. A very time-consuming one.) Let’s just say I can relate. We're not all night owls. And I found the tips somewhat useful, such as:

"If you have too much on your mind to feel sexy, write a list of your thoughts in a journal before you get into bed. If you're thinking about tomorrow, make a to-do list—it'll feel like a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders."

I My friend just might try this one.

Have other ways to get in the mood in the p.m.? Send them our way.


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