Date Discussion DOs and DON’Ts

Date Discussion DOs and DON’Ts

A few topics that turn him off…

Straight from the soon-to-be-released Why Hasn’t He Called? How Guys Really Think and How to Get the Right One Interested In You, a guy-wrangling playbook from Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal, topics to avoid and try on the all-important first date:

He’s running if you talk about…

  • Therapy or rehab of any kind
  • Babies: anything about them
  • Love: the concept, the thought, or the premise
  • Breakups: good, bad, ugly
  • Your girlfriends: he doesn’t care, believe us
  • Things you hate about your body
  • Puppies, kittens, or any animal smaller than 25 pounds
  • Zodiac signs
  • Makeup, fashion, shoes, or nails
  • All things related to that time of the month

He’s listening if you talk about…

  • Things that turn girls on, but do not reveal any personal prefs
  • The amount of private time you require. Make sure you say you need plenty!
  • The HBO series Entourage
  • Rational thought with an independent disposition

Now, some of the DON’Ts may seem obvious, but it’s amazing what can come out of one’s mouth when nervous.

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