Undone Dishes

I came home from work the other day.  The dishes in the dishwasher were dirty (it was full), and there were dishes in the sink and beside the sink and a used pan on the stove. Understand that I am not the neatest housekeeper in the world (or even on my block, I’m sure) and some untidiness is usually fine with me.  But come on.  I ask you, how much time does it take to start the bloody dishwasher?  I was pissed!