Are Sex Parties The New Vibrator?

• Sex clubs are often not in the nicest neighborhoods due to their adult nature and city zoning laws; research transportation and parking options in advance.
• Ask about the alcohol policy before you go. Many parties don't allow it at all, while others permit you to bring your own.
• It only takes one drunk to ruin a party for everyone.
• Hosts and communities take the rules very seriously. Heed them.
• Most parties have a place to leave your clothes, but leave valuables at home.
• It's always a good idea to bring your own safer sex supplies, although many parties provide condoms, gloves and lube.
• It's okay to watch but don't point, snicker or otherwise become a lookey-loo. That's rude.
• If someone is aggressive or obnoxious, notify the hosts. Again, it only takes one jerk to ruin the event for everyone else.

Resources: Is There A Sex Party Near You?

Polly and Scott: www.themoralminority.net
Voyeur Events: www.voyeurevents.com
Fetish Factory: www.fetishfactory.com/
Center for Sex and Culture: www.sexandculture.org
Eros Guide: www.eros-la.com/classifieds/eroscities.htm

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