His Take: It seems to me like a bad sign for a relationship to start with kissing lessons. Shouldn't you be ravishing each other? The tutorials aren't supposed to come until much later, 20 years from now, when you and the wife break down and order one of those Improve Your Married Sex Life! DVDs. For all of our rationalizing about compatibility, about what makes an "amazing" woman, about what we should or shouldn't feel, there's something to be said for basic chemistry, for losing yourself completely, for falling in love (or at least lust) with abandon. That said, if you think you can improve this woman’s technique with a tip or two (and without completely humiliating her), go for it.
"Over drinks at a bar my date revealed many interesting details about himself. He used to live on 'the streets.' He claimed to have 'beat Spina Bifida.' He had had a fiancé in Japan who was open to him dating women while he was in the States. After all those amazing revelations I let him know our relationship would not be romantic. As we walked out of the bar he appeared to be suffering from some sort of stomach cramp. He told me he suffered from severe IBS and desperately needed a private bathroom. I have family members who suffer from Crohn's disease so I felt very sympathetic to his situation. I offered to let him use the bathroom in my apartment. After he had finished using the bathroom, he says, 'I know you said we could just be friends and that's fine. But, I was wondering if I could just watch you pee before I leave. I only want to watch.' P.S. — I did not let him watch me pee." -Miranda, 33