His Take: It seems to me like a bad sign for a relationship to start with kissing lessons. Shouldn't you be ravishing each other? The tutorials aren't supposed to come until much later, 20 years from now, when you and the wife break down and order one of those Improve Your Married Sex Life! DVDs. For all of our rationalizing about compatibility, about what makes an "amazing" woman, about what we should or shouldn't feel, there's something to be said for basic chemistry, for losing yourself completely, for falling in love (or at least lust) with abandon. That said, if you think you can improve this woman’s technique with a tip or two (and without completely humiliating her), go for it.
Cathi and Dan give advice on how to handle a bad kisser.