10 Questions To Ask Before Saying I Do
Getting engaged? An expert suggests 10 questions to ask before he gets down on one knee.
6. Can Uncle Joe Borrow $50?
How much support do you give to your siblings, friends, or parents? The amount of emotional and financial assistance you each give to outsiders directly affects how much you’ll have left to give to each other.
7. Where Will You Be on Hanukah, Christmas, or Kwanzaa?
Divvying up holidays can be a severe source of stress for couples. Which holidays would you like to spend with your family? Which would you be willing to celebrate with his (or hers)?
8. Are You Into Bondage?
Or perhaps it’s role-playing that gets you going. Either way, couples shouldn’t even consider saying "I do" until they have discussed how they like to do the deed. This includes not only where, when and how they prefer to get it on, but also how they will handle sexual dissatisfaction.
9. Can I Go to Lunch With My Ex?
How about attending that bachelor/ette party in Las Vegas? What about a strip club with the guys? Once married, couples must establish boundaries for social behavior, but it’s better to know what you’re okay with (or not) before diving in to a lifetime commitment.
10. Will it Be Church or Golf This Sunday?
What role does religion play in your life? How will it play out in your relationship? How would you feel if your partner suddenly became more or less devout about a particular belief?
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