Paul's closer worked so well that today he's married to one of the women who sampled the famous rollatini. But that doesn't mean the closer is a thing of the past. "My wife and I cook together, and I think it's key in the relationship. When you cook together, you're communicating," he says. "Even if something bad is going on, you're working towards a common goal: getting through this conversation, and getting fed."
And when things get really bad? He brings out the rollatini, the edible flowers, and, OK, some jewelry—and closes the deal again.