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Weapons of First Date Seduction

When it comes to a first date, we like to believe that confidence is key. It’s also practically synonymous with sexy. Although romance is alive and well, gone are the days when the primary elements of seduction were mascara and sky-high stilettos (still – those never hurt either).

In an attempt to keep it casual (and to test the guy, she admits), a Tango staffer recently wore a pair of pink sweatpants and her Uggs on a first date. It was just the movies, and though it was a bold move, it must have worked since she got a callback the very next day. Did she take it too far, or could "bum chic" be the new first date protocol?


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