When He Doesn't Want Kids (and You Do)
Advice for a woman who is madly in love with but very different from her man.
Being in this very special relationship is an important event that forever will be a part of you both, and will shape your future in ways you may not be able to predict right now. It may take another breakup or two, but eventually, going forward individually to realize your goals and dreams will feel more right than staying together. Hang in there.-Susi Susan King is a wife and entrepreneur in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Send her your dilemmas and contact her at susi@tangomag.com
Discussion
I am in the same situation right now except i am older and older than him and he has one kid and he has stated he doesn't want another one because its too hard to raise this child that he has and he seems to think that his child should be good enough for me to have. its just not the same and his child doesn't even live with him. i have no part in raising this child and he sure doesn't respect me as a mom. i do what i can when i actually see him to be his friend but that is all i can do. i want a child with someone to raise and have a family with and why wouldn't the man you love want to have a child with you? maybe its you he doesn't want to have a child with i dont know? he loves me and i love him but your exactly right its going to keep getting worse and then resentment sets in. im breaking up slow i think that is what i am doing. its been 4 yrs. and im am wonderin how hard its going to be now to try and find someone that wants what i want and that wants me. I have use 4yrs up already with the wrong guy who i happen to still love it sucks and im depressed as hell!!!
I advise you stay away from the relatioship beacuse the man already have his own children and have none yet
I believe, that both will always crave each other for therest of their lives.
Poor spouses to be. There will moments when their faraway look(s) will be more than obvious to their future spouses/partners. This is life.
