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What's the best way to end a fight?
AH: Say I'm sorry. I don't want him to explain why he did it, I want him to say the words: "I'm sorry."
JS: Just say: "I'm sorry." There's a plaque in our house that says, "Never go to bed mad—stay up and fight."

What's the biggest compliment that he/she has ever paid you?
AH: That I'm a good mom.
JS: That I'm a good dad.

What do you think he/she looks sexiest in?
AH: His suit. But that's a hard question. My husband is just so good-looking; it's ridiculous! He'll age gracefully and I'll be this old, wrinkled-up, quirky raisin by his side. My nose will be on my forehead because I've had so many facelifts.
JS: A miniskirt and heels.

What is your favorite body part of his/hers?
AH: His hands. No, his lips. No hands, no … OK, his lips. There, I'll stick with it.
JS: Legs. Those legs are just killer.

When I want to look extra sexy I wear ...
AH: A costume, and I'm proud to say it! Oh, yeah. And he's proud of me, too. (Laughs.) I did a show [Inconceivable], where my character takes a pregnant woman to a sex shop. When we were going in there I told the costumers, "You're going to need to grab me this outfit, and this one and this one. I stocked up for the year."
JS: White boxers. Most of my boxers have print, but when I need to look
extra-sexy, I throw on some white boxers and Mama's happy.

So, what's Jason's favorite costume?
AH: I won't answer that. I'm a good Southern girl. You'll have to ask him.
JS: French maid. There's been plenty of outfits and costumes, but that one takes the cake. Maybe it's because that outfit doesn't exist anywhere, except in dreams. A close second is schoolgirl—there's something about seeing your wife with white stockings up to her knees. It all goes back to those legs!

In another life, who would you have had a crush on?
AH: Ed Norton. Absolutely. He's just so talented. That was something I quizzed myself on when I was dating Jason: "If Ed Norton called me and asked me out right now what would I say?" (My answer
was "no.")
JS: There's no right answer to that question! I'm in this life, so I'm going to go ahead and live in the here and now.

What quality do you admire most in him/her?
AH: His integrity.
JS: Her compassion. To be around her on a daily basis is pretty amazing.

Why do you think your relationship works?
AH: Because we communicate, and we're conscientious of each other's feelings. Jason's seen me at my best and my worst. Even my closest friends haven't seen me when I'm defeated and depressed and sad. He has, and he's right there with me.
JS: Because we understand that we're not the same, and we love each other. We're very stubborn people, but when it comes to our marriage, we put that aside.

What do you want most for each other?
AH: Lifelong bliss—because he deserves it.
JS: Happiness. I don't care about all that other stuff. As long as she's happy, then I'm good.